A little bit about me

I’m Paula, and I’m so happy you’re here. My husband, Clifton, and I have two bold and brilliant daughters. If I say so myself, our girls are some of the best works their daddy and I have done to date.

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I made medical history at birth for being the first Siamese twin joined at the neck to survive. After that bumpy entrance, the rest was a fight, first to survive and later to thrive. But God. He’s always got a plan. And I learned, if you let him, he’ll let you in on it.

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If nothing else, my life made me “others-oriented.” As a child, I received very little inspiration and motivation to thrive. At times even the presence of God seemed absent.

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My book, The Perfectly Imperfect Princess, is a fairytale version of my real-life story. Through the book and the places I’m invited to speak, I use my experiences to bring inspiration, hope, and inspire courage to those whose lives may have begun unfairly, like mine.

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Both released in 2020, the ebook and paperback are available through Amazon. Hardbacks are available through email inquiry at tooemom@gmail.com.  Although I wrote it as a fairytale, since hard things are sometimes better received as fiction, and the cover looks like a children’s book, it’ll touch your life no matter your age or background. So you should grab a version. It’ll help you.

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My newest release, Perfectly Imperfect, just hit the shelves- it's the 'grown-up version' of my first book! If you need motivation to overcome any obstacle you're facing and flip the script on scars, this book is for you!